2008–2012
921 posts
2012 428
December 2012
- What is purpose? How do I create more purpose in my life?
- What is meaning? How do I create more meaning in my life?
- Understanding others’ value and their values
- What is value? What are values? (short version)
- What is value? What are values?
- Cognitive behavioral therapy and its problems, part 2
- Cognitive behavioral therapy and its problems
- The irony of my last two posts
- Vince Lombardi: What It Takes to be Number One
- Public speaking and karaoke success
- Burpees — the one year review
- Nature versus Corporate (slideshow)
- Nature versus Corporate
- Petty pathetic censorship
- You know, ordinary life is pretty complex stuff
- Thoughts on mourning
- A poem: In the sea of Iwami by Kakinomoto Hitomaro
- One of the most insidious barriers to getting hard things done, part 5: examples
- One of the most insidious barriers to getting hard things done, part 4: overcoming them
- One of the most insidious barriers to getting hard things done, part 3: why empathy gaps make sense
- One of the most insidious barriers to getting hard things done, part 2: research and experiments
- One of the most insidious barriers to getting hard things done, part 1
- Moving doesn’t have to suck. It can be great.
- Talking about race is sure to lead to nonsense
- Responsibility and consuming resources
- Scandal about that refreshing voice on copyright from a hard-core conservative
- You’re an animal
- Schopenhauer on the consistency and reliability of our emotional systems
- Overcoming Objections and Blocks overview and table of contents
- Overcoming objections exercise
- Common objection 11: Other people tell me not to
November 2012
- Common objection 10: I’m good at something else
- Common objection 9: I’m too busy. I have other priorities.
- Common objection 8: But it’s embarrassing or it makes me anxious
- Common objection 7: I’ll feel fake
- Common objection 6: That’s just the way it is
- Common objection 5: I have to take care of “real world” issues first
- Common objection 4: I don’t know how to do it, I’m too introverted, I’m not smart enough, etc
- Common objection 3: I don’t have enough money/time/connections/etc
- Common objection 2: I’m not good at X. I can’t do Y. I’m not a Z person
- Publishing
- Common objection 1: I want to understand the root of the problem before solving it
- See Rufus Seder’s talk on “Magic, Art, and Motion Pictures” featuring my work in Boston November 29
- How to view objections and blocks as advantages
- Overcoming objections and blocks in leadership and personal development: The overarching principles
- How to make yourself more confident
- A refreshing voice on copyright from a hard-core conservative
- Experimenting with ads
- Variety, choice, the manufactured illusion of it, and creating more yourself
- Appreciation for good customer service
- Obesity, insults, and living by your values
- A good video on body language, non-verbal communication, and improving yourself
- Perceiving tragedy
- Thriving in challenging situations
- How do you respond to others’ suffering?
- Amazing software to help you think and organize
- The most important parts of any exercise or diet
- Values change
- Misconceptions about values
- Another genius business idea: Iron Designer tv show
- You’re always emotional, not only when you’re angry or excited
- Non-attachment, caring, and motivation, part 2
- Sensationalist reporting
- It’s what you make of it
October 2012
- Always remember the media wants to sell ads
- No power? No complaints.
- Measuring costs of disasters, modeling your world, and accounting
- Social challenges can be harder than technical
- The simple pleasures of home
- Know your self-talk, lead others
- Know your self-talk, know yourself, part 2
- Know your self talk, know yourself
- Some self-talk you’ll recognize, to improve your self-awareness
- You can connect with anyone
- If we return to the same happiness level eventually, why do we prefer winning lotteries to becoming quadriplegic?
- The metric system isn’t that much better
- Starting a leadership school
- You show me the best leader in a room and I’ll show you the one who works the hardest
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Review
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Shortcomings of 360-degree feedback reports
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Weaknesses are often strengths misapplied
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: foreseeing challenges
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Focus on the client
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Use Feedforward
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Create accountability for yourself
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: find a relevant exercise
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: figuring out what to start with
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Personal development skills
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: Improve one thing at a time
- INSEAD leadership seminar
- A sample 360-degree feedback report: qualitative feedback
- A sample 360-degree feedback report: more detail
- Leadership lessons from 360-degree feedback charts
- A sample 360-degree feedback: Overview charts
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students: 360-degree feedbacks
- Coaching highlights from coaching Columbia Business School students
September 2012
- See Joshua Spodek at INSEAD Singapore next week
- Amazing essays by amazing writers and thinkers
- Sports and passion
- Science is a long way from helping diet
- How does a car flip over like this?!?
- My beautiful eight-minute Shanghai commute
- Your commute is too long
- People who claim not to judge and blame often do, illustrated, part 2
- People who claim not to judge and blame often do, illustrated
- My Mom, the new face of fashion
- Our polluted world
- Where do you buy fruits and vegetables?
- One of the best exercises I know to raise your self-awareness
- Why food matters
- You can still learn new things
- North Korea and relationships
- Motivating populations
- Occupy Disney
- Broccoli rabe versus sweets
- What causes all the stress in your life?
- Non-attachment, caring, and motivation
- A good listening question, especially if you talk too much
- If you want to change something you do, its opposite usually is no better. Look for its complement.
- Examples of ignoring impediments on the way to greatness
- A model to make hard decisions easier
- Lessons in freedom from Charles Barkley
- Being overweight looks depressing
- Too much is a problem too
- How I got to work a day or two a week
- Union Square in Motion named Adobe Design Achievement Award Semifinalist!
August 2012
- So you’re good at meeting people. How do you choose whom to meet?
- A fundamental contradiction for many women in dating
- I flipped burgers at the Burger King on the Champs-Elysees in Paris
- You can plan good times. The best times just happen.
- Motivation, energy to act, and expectation of success
- Growing up in a bad part of town
- More on power, leadership, lawlessness, justice, and amnesty
- Power, leadership, lawlessness, justice, and amnesty
- Handling annoying requests from your superiors at work
- Typical conversation in Chinese restaurant
- The Leaders in Software and Art Conference, October 16
- My essays for getting into an Ivy League business school in 23 days
- My background for getting into an Ivy League business school in 23 days
- I started at an Ivy League business school 23 days after deciding to apply. Here’s how.
- I love the West Village
- Soursops — my new favorite fruit!
- Boracay!
- How I edit these posts
- The one person you can never see from another person’s perspective is yourself
- Kim Il Sung Square, the day before his birthday celebration
- More on rules
- An old building in North Korea
- Rules: what are they and how do you get to play by your own?
- North Korean monuments, part 2
- More on becoming a superstar
- North Korean monuments, part 1
- How to become a superstar
- My coffee habit and rules
- More on North Korea’s art
- Why I don’t like watching soccer
- Three things I learned from yoga
- North Korean children’s nearly unbelievable performances
- How far should I develop myself? It’s hard!
- An olympic shock
- An interesting character in North Korea
- Why do you read joshuaspodek.com? What do you want to see more or less of?
- Genuine North Korean emotion and tears
- Facebook’s woes and what it could have done instead
- Pyongyang’s slums
July 2012
- Another genius business idea: real-life fairy tales
- Great Bruce Springsteen article in this week’s New Yorker
- What works in X web page mind map
- Do you overvalue originality at the expense of getting the job done?
- Another genius business idea: the “What Works in X” web page
- How I could be wrong about North Korea’s stability
- Another genius business idea: the “What Works in X” book series
- Bizarre tour of the metro museum
- The Art of What Works
- Natural beauty in North Korea, part 2: beaches
- Words to help you do things daily
- What do you think of “leaders” whose people suffered
- Another genius business idea: the series
- Natural beauty in North Korea, part 1: mountains
- Leadership, personal development, choosing to care, and emotional pain
- Random observations of Pyongyang and North Korea
- Having acceptance, tolerance, and hope show gaping holes in your life
- My first tilt-shift: North Korea
- My fitness habits, part 4: Nothing special about what I did
- My fitness habits, part 3: Exercise
- Pyongyang city planning
- My fitness beliefs and habits, part 2: Food and Eating
- North Korea and deteriorated infrastructure
- My fitness beliefs and habits, part 1: Principles
- North Korea and industry
- Things aren’t suddenly getting worse
- North Korea and inequity
- You don’t find your passion, you create it
- In North Korea, many people just sit by the roadside with nothing to do
- Every moment counts
- How to generate tons of hits and posts and why I don’t do it
- Public speaking: one way to captivate audiences
- More North Korea posts to come
- I like luxury when someone gives it to me just for being myself
- My satellite in the news!
- Would you eat the cherry tomato?
- A leadership dream
- The scourge of romantic comedies
- If you crave something you don’t have, people who have it will always be able to control you
- You don’t have to accept anyone else’s hierarchy of taste
- Frederick Douglass on the Fourth of July
- Ultimate in Shanghai!
- Ten Years of Submedia’s New York City display!
- Another awesome blog — this one on living richly
June 2012
- Spending less improves your life
- The bigger problems you don’t consider big deals, the more important people consider you
- The U.S. has a “dysfunctional patent system”
- Sharing what you love fills your life with sharing, love, and stuff you love
- A tip for high-status behavior
- Burpee overview
- Explaining China’s support for North Korea
- Burpee six-month review
- Impressions of China
- The terracotta army
- Xian
- Learning social skills helps your life more than almost anything
- Durians!
- Proof you can change even very important beliefs in an instant
- On creating emotions
- Persistence pays off, so does treating people like people
- “Extremes” usually aren’t
- Not envying others, without complacency
- The values of different fields
- Living by your values
- Leadership lessons from method acting
- Difficult lessons in leadership
- America’s infrastructure, leadership, idealism, and getting the job done
- What is progress?
- My cousin — Olympics bound?
- A Korean-American friend’s article about visiting North Korea
- Seeing movies in theaters reminds my why I don’t like watching movies in theaters
- How you see the world when you see it from space
- Every word you say counts
- My comedy sketch script
- Great videos on understanding the economy, environment, and energy
- Facebook versus Walden
- Entrepreneurs saving heating costs and polluting less
May 2012
- Creating your emotions — my friend’s incredibly successful story
- First cherries of spring!
- The difference between men and women
- Human history, on a flash drive
- On the values of travel
- If Money Doesn’t Make You Happy, Consider Time
- Problems at the foundation of economics
- Why people flip out (including yourself) and what to do about it
- A leadership perspective on differences between economic systems
- Robert McNamara on Vietnam and leadership (or lack thereof) that led to the war
- Joshua Spodek mentioned in Tate Modern lecture
- Xu Bing’s gallery show at the Shanghai Gallery of Art
- Ho Chi Minh City’s War Remembrance Museum
- Leadership and the environment
- Culture shock comes when you experience something old for the first time in a while, not something new
- Difficult life decision? Here’s how to look at it.
- Founding myths and who created North Korea
- The difference between “about science” and science
- I don’t know when the United States and North Korean governments will be at peace, but we made it sooner
- Entrepreneurs: think twice before taking advice from venture capitalists
- Business people should understand our effect on the environment better than anyone, part 2
- Business people should understand our effect on the environment better than anyone, part 1
- One of the best books I’ve read on the environment, our impact on it, and what we can do about it
- A leader and physicist’s view on morality, ethics, and judgment
- How do you lead when you can’t stand working with someone?
- Deciding right and wrong for others and causing them guilt and blame doesn’t help anyone
- The New York Times had a contest about my post
- Giant marshmallow dreams
- On the counterproductivity of motivating people with guilt and blame — aka moralizing
- North Korea, China, Vietnam, Cuba — a case for humility and understanding
- Ecology, economy, population growth and Do The Math
- Perhaps this blog’s most useful and effective advice
- Food, joy, and values
April 2012
- Awesome math book and an anecdote on it
- The height of annoying
- See my North Korea strategy talk
- Words of wisdom for crunch time
- Leadership-based thoughts on economic and energy growth and limits
- Fantastic video on economic and energy growth and limits
- The Forbidden City
- Back from North Korea!
- See Joshua Spodek on understanding North Korea from a business strategy perspective in Beijing
- Why don’t they teach emotional intelligence and self awareness in school? (part 1, K-12)
- Giving unsolicited advice generally backfires. Here are alternatives.
- How to identify great life lessons
- Learning from performers to live in the moment
- How to get the body you want
- Conquering anxiety (or any other emotion) and getting the job done
- The Great Wall of China!
- More on the subjectivity of “truth”
- Talking about “truth” or “reality” confuses things
- Do you think truth is objective?
- I don’t like to travel
- Learning the incredibly helpful skill of forgetting
- My interview by Leaders in Software and Art
- Yet more perspective on the economy, environment, and ecology
- Finally, more great perspective on the economy, environment, and ecology
- How to feel good anytime
- North Korean models
- Two representations of problems with America
- Podcast from my August North Korea trip
- Finding home by traveling far
- A story of a North Korean prison camp
- Physical and emotional tension are similar and you can use either to help the other
- North Korea, the environment, and trees
- Your online tools spy on you. There is a way out.
- Is there no comprehensive list of emotions?
March 2012
- Balancing challenge, learning, fun, and reward in personal development
- Creating miracles
- One way to accept without judging
- Hard work, money, and American values
- Obama’s missed North Korea opportunity
- Working hard versus getting things done
- The slides from my North Korea talk at Columbia Business School
- Leaving Facebook is easy and fun
- Eloquence
- Make your faults and weaknesses strengths
- A Catch-22 of minority and underprivileged leadership
- Spring in New York 2012, part 1
- Fun words for annoying people
- Activating mental chatter
- Another review of Understanding North Korea: Demystifying the World’s Most Misunderstood Country
- The first step in strategy
- How gyms having big mirrors helps so much
- A question on my North Korea talk at Columbia
- See Joshua Spodek on understanding North Korea from a business strategy perspective at Columbia Business School
- When the greatness of great leadership emerges
- Spring sunshine and breezes
- What is status?
- What is power?
- Depressions don’t make you depressed
- Attempting to succeed means you will fail sometimes
- Some consolation
- How to attract anyone, part 3
- A way to attract anyone, part 2: how to do it
- How to attract anyone, part 1
- An exercise to help keep you from getting angry
- A self-awareness exercise to help keep you calm and effective
- Psychologists on self-awareness
- My habits
- A North Korean vegan food blog
- Habits can be contagious. How to make that work for you.
February 2012
- Telling my awesome story on stage about inspiring my mom’s first marathon
- Hard projects will be harder than you expect. How to prepare.
- Using an MBA as a multi-media artist, and other uses
- E. O. Wilson and evolutionary psychology in the New Yorker
- An essay on money
- A bad day skiing beats a good day of almost anything else
- Planet Money on the North Korean economy
- A solution to all ethics problems
- Forget what you have. What can you create?
- Hopeless or worth it? When should you give up on a project going nowhere?
- How not to fail
- Does greatness require letting go of your safety net?
- Nobody is normal
- What I learned from football ads
- How to respond to insults
- Vulnerability and opening up first
- Josh’s growing list of differences with mainstream American culture
- Amazing representation of the size the universe and everything in it
- Don’t let a sour grapes attitude ruin your life
- Some reasonable talk on the China Study
- Getting through the challenges of personal development
- Improve your public speaking through storytelling, part 2
- Improve your public speaking through storytelling, part 1
- More labels not helping: a man’s autism vanishes
- “Introverted” / “Extroverted”: labels hold you back from improving your life
- Willpower, part 9: an image of how to use willpower
- Willpower, part VIII: images of temptation
- Willpower, part 0: The value of willpower
- Communications skills exercises, part 10a: examples of voicing your self-talk
- Willpower, part VII: what to do with your old motivations
- Is New York City’s warm February weather scaring you?
- More on burpees
- Grand Illusions and North Korea, part 2
- Who knew a one-minute-a-day workout could do so much?
January 2012
- Grand Illusions and North Korea, part 1
- How to begin a workout routine to last: start with joy
- The Method: exercise to transform yourself
- The Method: exercise in new beliefs
- The Method: exercise in knowing yourself
- The Method: long term
- The Method: improving your life as much as you want is all based on one cycle
- Google’s “Don’t Be Evil” reveals more than you’d think
- The Method: long-term growth from many transformations
- The Method: illustration of implementation stages
- The Method from another perspective
- The Method: implementation stage 1: a caveat
- The Method: implementation stage 3: regular life
- The Method: implementation stage 2: support
- The Method: implementation stage 1: transition
- The Method: implementation overview
- The Method: summary of one cycle (with diagram)
- The Method, step 4: Implement the environments, beliefs, and behaviors
- The Method, step 3: conceive of new environments, beliefs, and behaviors
- The Method, step 2: conceive of new emotions
- The Method: steps 0 and 1, awareness
- The Method, step 1: understand your current emotional cycles
- The Method, step 0: know your emotional system
- The Method, step by step
- Models: an exercise in spotting the model
- This land was made for you and me
- Models: an exercise in evaluating models
- Hundreds of millions of counterfeit hundred dollar bills, part 3
- Models: examples of the active view
- This photograph is free!
- Hundreds of millions of counterfeit hundred dollar bills, part 2
- Models: the active view, part 2
- Hundreds of millions of counterfeit hundred dollar bills, part 1
- Models: the active view, part 1
- Models: flaws from experts
- Models: why I stress that they all have flaws
- Models: the passive view
- A kink in the armor: The Wall Street Journal on luxuries entering North Korea
- Examples of models: Mexico city, lack of awareness, and leadership
- The Bulletin of Atomic Scientists on North Korea’s nuclear power development
- Favorite moments in North Korea of my travel group-mates, part 3
- Examples of models: “Everybody does their best according to their abilities and perception of their environment”
- Examples of models: “beliefs and expectations filter your perception”
- Favorite moments in North Korea of my travel group-mates, part 2
- Examples of models: why he or she didn’t call
- Favorite moments in North Korea of my travel group-mates, part 1
- Examples of models: how a slight change in your model can create big changes in behavior
- Understanding North Korea featured on Amazon
- Examples of models: beliefs and mental models
- A brief history of Understanding North Korea: Demystifying the World’s Most Misunderstood Country
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December 2011
- The best book for understanding North Korea
- Examples of models: the Earth from several perspectives
- Examples of models: maps
- Leadership opportunities in North Korea for U.S. Presidents
- More on kids’ understanding about eating meat
- Celebrations on a North Korea scale
- Communications skills exercises, part 10: Your Authentic Voice
- More mass crying at Kim Jong Il’s funeral
- Wrapping up reasonable talk on eating
- The Vice Guide to North Korea teaches little and perpetuates pre-conceived notions
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue7: anatomy
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue6: religion
- The media keeps misinterpreting North Korea
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue5: feeling closer to nature
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue4: animal cruelty
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue3: animal rights
- Mass crying over Kim Jong Il’s death: Learning about others teaches you about yourself
- Vaclav Havel and freedom; perhaps I was wrong
- Srikumar Rao’s talk follow-up: deep discounts on January’s class
- Understanding Kim Jong Il from a systems perspective, and what to do now
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue2: environment
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issue1: health
- Why I don’t eat meat: non-issues
- What comes next for North Korea?
- On the death of an unpopular leader
- Kim Jung Il died today
- Why I don’t eat meat, part 2
- Why I don’t eat meat, part 1
- Why I stopped eating meat, part 3
- McLibel
- Why I stopped eating meat, part 2
- Why I stopped eating meat, part 1
- More reasonable talk on eating, part 3
- More reasonable talk on eating, part 2
- Rules: what we could and couldn’t do in North Korea
- Our North Korea itinerary
- More reasonable talk on eating
- North Korea strategy: a toy proposal to promote thought
- Some reasonable talk on eating
- Computer problems
- Pictures of North Korea, part 9: the Grand People’s Study House
- Reasons to visit North Korea
- Comedian Chris Rock can solve all your relationship problems
- “Elements” — Special viewing of my art December 10, 8-10pm
- The Method: three exercises to transform your life, part 3
- North Korea strategy: what you can do
- The Method: three exercises to transform your life, part 2
- North Korea strategy: reducing domestic support
- My North Korea talk slides
- The Method: three exercises to transform your life, part 1
- North Korean strategy: increasing interaction
- Upcoming events!
- See me speak on North Korea Sunday at 7pm in Soho!
- Communications skills exercises, part IX: statements instead of questions
- The heart of freedom, part 2
November 2011
- The heart of freedom
- North Korean strategy: reducing the risk to North Korean decision makers
- North Korean strategy: China
- You can get reward from every part of your life
- North Korean strategy: starting points for successful change
- Audio interview: why leadership? what’s so great about leading?
- Make painful emotions useful
- North Korean Strategy: what won’t change things
- North Korean strategy: how does the world look to North Korean leaders?
- Director of MTA Arts for Transit on Union Square in Motion
- Occupy Wall Street and Leadership, part 4: Bloomberg taking sides polarizes situation
- North Korean strategy: what do North Korean leaders want?
- Occupy Wall Street and Leadership, part 3: recommendations
- North Korean Strategy: from the leaders’ perspective
- Occupy Wall Street and Leadership, part 2: the New York City Mayor’s opportunity
- Occupy Wall Street and leadership, part 1: the context
- North Korean Strategy: the North Korean government’s sustainable competitive advantages
- Audio interview: best part of visiting North Korea?
- North Korea strategy: the players and their motives
- There will never be a periodic table of emotions, part 2
- There will never be a periodic table of emotions, part 1
- North Korea strategy: the playing field and major players
- North Korea strategy: a primer on strategy
- How to bring happiness and emotional reward to your life by analogy with pleasure, part 3
- North Korea strategy: preview
- How to bring happiness and emotional reward to your life by analogy with pleasure, part 2
- Pictures of North Korea, part 8: the road back to Pyongyang
- How to bring happiness and emotional reward to your life by analogy with pleasure, part 1
- Pictures of North Korea, part 7: Kaesong
- See Professor Srikumar Rao at the New School December 13, 6:30pm
- Central Park: Sunday’s stunning explosion of autumn colors
- Audio interview: why did I go to North Korea?
- An offer to the Freedombox community
- Weird things in the United States from a North Korean perspective
- First time sprints
- Weird things I saw in North Korea
- Using the Method to wake up earlier
- See me speak on North Korea in December!
- Rules for visitors in North Korea, part 2
- The Method: summary of stages
- WordPress bug
- Rules for visitors in North Korea, part 1
- The Method: transformations, stage 3: regular life
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 7
- The Method: transformations, stage 2: support
- Audio interview: the difference between my seminar and traditional business school leadership classes
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 6
- Union Square in Motion on NY1
- Amartya Sen and North Korea
- The Method: transformations, stage 1: a caveat
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 5
- Union Square in Motion NY1 Interview with designers
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 4
- The Method: transformations, stage 1: transition
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 3
- The Method: transformations overview
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 2
- The Method: summary of preparation (with diagram)
- The Method: step 4, create and implement them
- Ultimate Frisbee in North Korea, part 1
October 2011
- Audio interview: ultimate frisbee in Pyongyang, North Korea
- Reminder: My next leadership seminar: This weekend at the New School
- Beliefs affect your perception, illustrated with wine
- North Korean propaganda and our advertising, part 4
- North Korean propaganda and our advertising, part 3
- On Responsibility and Occupy Wall Street
- North Korean propaganda and our advertising, part 2
- The Method: step 3, conceive of new consistent environments, beliefs, and behaviors
- North Korean propaganda and our advertising, part 1
- Propaganda in North Korea
- The Method: steps 1 and 2, awareness
- Common questions about visiting North Korea, part 2
- The Method: step 2, understand your current emotional cycles
- Common questions about visiting North Korea, part 1
- Audio interview: my first sale, with Coca-Cola
- Food in North Korea
- The Method, step 1: know your emotional system
- The Method: example 3: two simple but effective examples
- Freedombox’s pursuit of perfection undermines its goals
- Pictures of North Korea, part 6: the Demilitarized Zone
- The Method: example 2: overwhelming joy on a bleak morning
- Pictures of North Korea, part 5: approaching the DMZ
- The Method: example 1: a home run after three strikes
- Joshua Spodek on Official North Korean Television!
- The Method: how-to
- North Korea themes, part III
- The Method: when to use it
- North Korea themes, part II
- North Korea themes, part I
- Reminder: My next two leadership seminars: October 23,30 and November 5,6 at the New School
- Audio interview: sales lessons from a great failure
- Review of non-Method methods
- Pictures of North Korea, part 4: the Arch of Reunification
- Pictures of North Korea, part 3: first views of Pyongyang
- Non-Method method 4: positive thinking
- Pictures of North Korea, part 2: preparing for our first adventure
- Non-Method method 3: “The Secret” or “Law of Attraction”
- What’s counterproductive about “making the world a better place”
- Non-Method method 2: New Year’s resolutions
- Pictures of North Korea, part I: starting at the hotel
- I won’t get in trouble for this
- Flying through Shanghai
- Basic observations of North Korea
- Expectations of North Korea
- Visiting Occupy Wall Street
- Non-Method method 1: “I need a new house/car/job/girlfriend/boyfriend/etc”
- I’ll get in trouble for this in two ways
- Audio interview: life lessons from academia: business school
- Non-Method methods
- North Korea bibliography and what I will write about
- The Ethics of Visiting North Korea
- The Method: the foundation, part I
- Crossing Art: Motion in Stillness images
- What’s touring North Korea like?
- How to get to North Korea and if you can legally
- From the Model to the Method
- North Korea!
- The Model: summary
- My next two leadership seminars: October 23,30 and November 5,6 at the New School
- Union Square in Motion summary
- Union Square in Motion: opening event pictures
- The Model: what is freedom?
- Communication skills exercises, part VIII: breaking the ice
- Audio interview: how travel improves your life — even without traveling
- The Model: strategize, then enjoy
- The Model: bring about emotions you want and enjoy them, don’t dwell on them
September 2011
- The Model: “What is the meaning of life” is a needlessly and counterproductively complicated question
- The Model: the source of all meaning, value, purpose, and importance
- The Model: a single cycle is simple. Many cycles get complex.
- Fantastic behind-the-scenes making-of video of Union Square in Motion
- How to get past “I can’t get past it”
- Should you get a coach?
- Press and reviews of Union Square in Motion
- Union Square in Motion public art opening today
- Audio interview: don’t just accept, celebrate!
- Union Square in Motion opening Monday 7pm
- The Model: what you can and can’t control
- The Model: how your emotional system chooses your emotions
- The Model: more on the difference between “positive” and rewarding emotions
- The Model: more functional views of emotions
- Videos of Union Square in Motion with children, in interior and article
- Earth from space, a pale blue dot
- The Model: what are awareness, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence?
- Video of Union Square Public Art Piece during installation
- Cleaning up: moving “My Art” to separate page
- Finding Union Square in Motion
- Audio interview: how I make eating well and exercising easy, fun, and rewarding
- The Model: reward in more depth
- Union Square display just up and beautiful!
- The Model: behavior in more depth
- The Model: characteristics of emotions
- The Model: the origins of your emotions and emotional system
- The Model: emotions in more depth
- The Model: perception and belief in more depth
- The Model: environment in more depth
- Audio interview: how I pick my seminar and blog topics
- Introducing Audio Mondays
- Working on bug — Edit: resolved!
- Shortcomings of cognitive behavioral therapy and remedies to them
- The Model and cognitive behavioral therapy
- The Model: our emotional system is outdated
- The Model: your emotional system is consistent and predictable
- The Model: our emotions transcend “nature red in tooth and claw”
- The Model: emotional reward differs from the emotion that brought it about
- The Model: examples of emotional cycles
- The Model: where emotional cycles came from
- The Model: reward, happiness, and pleasure
August 2011
- Dropping friends who bring you down can hurt, but improves your life
- The Model: adding reward
- The Model: adding belief and perception
- The Model: adding emotions
- The Model: environment and behavior
- The Model: why
- The Model: models in general
- The Model
- The Model — introducing my model for the human emotional system
- More excitement than most people can handle
- Three little birds
- How to make people around you miserable
- How to get others to improve your life
- The most effective self-awareness exercise I know
- How to make persistence pay off more effectively
- How to stop boring everyone you meet
- When to judge
- More thoughts on being less judgmental
- Another way to avoid acting judgmentally
- How to stop being so judgmental
- Women are not “more emotional” than men
- Gender neutral language
- Mild emotions are still emotions
- People who say “Why do you care what other people think” are hypocritical, insensitive, self-important, and antagonistic
- Business school’s first major lesson: how to resolve ethical dilemmas
- Man Ray on values
- The essence of creativity, as expressed by Man Ray
- Communication skills exercises, part VII: building blocks and tips
- The tough times of personal change
- Communication skills exercises, part VI: feedforward
- When 100% orange juice isn’t: Pepsi, Coke, and agribusiness turn fruit into chemical concoctions
July 2011
- Communication skills exercises, part V: Meaningful connection
- Communication skills exercises, part IV: Storytelling
- Communication skills exercises, part III: Conversation hopping
- Animated Freedombox logo!
- Communication skills exercises, part II: Body language
- Communication skills exercises, part I
- You don’t know your values until you test them, part II
- You don’t know your values until you test them
- Walking is not dangerous
- Have you forgotten you’re alive?
- You can’t “create your world” but you can do better.
- Words to live by
- The best day of the year!
- How to turn lemons into lemonade, part IV
- How to turn lemons into lemonade, part III
- How to turn lemons into lemonade, part II
- How to turn lemons into lemonade, part I
- Calling emotions positive or negative doesn’t help — it hurts
- Roots — I descended from seventeenth-century Salem puritans!
- Making childhood dreams happen
- Culture shock
- Fun to imagine
- How to choose between nearly equal but incomparable options
- Inline videos
- Statements about time are statements about priorities and values
- New videos of my art
- Closing event for my solo show at Crossing Art gallery with Leaders in Software and Art
- People join good projects and leave bad management
- Independence Day
- Travel and developing empathy
- Exercise: how to improve your empathy
- Rock Star Dream
- Behind China’s Censorship
June 2011
- Solving Problems II: The Dandelion Versus The Burning Building
- Solving Problems I: The Dandelion Versus The Burning Building
- More belief-changing exercises
- More changing your perspective
- Change your perspective to change your perspective
- Istanbul!
- Leaders take responsibility
- The most common route to CEO
- More thoughts on motions, values, children, and school
- Emotions, values, children, and school
- A review of my solo gallery show
- Joshua Spodek: big in China
- A review of my seminars
- Solo gallery show first images and video
- Finishing touches
- Early reviews of the show from a four year old
- The CEO is the least hurried or reactive
- The CEO carries the least
- Announcement on the show
- Your new plans for Saturday
- How to tell if someone is good at something
- Linear zoetropes in Amsterdam
- Celebrating other people’s values
- Leadership seminar at New York Academy of Sciences posted
- Freedombox logo designs
- My next solo gallery show at Crossing Art Gallery
- Leadership and personal development and school
- Another successful leadership and personal development seminar
- Willpower, part VI: examples
- Willpower, part V: how to use it
- Willpower, part IV: when to use it
- Willpower, part III: when not to use it
May 2011
- Willpower, part II: what it is
- Willpower, part I: what is it, when to use it, and how
- I have low standards the first time
- Best solo workout I know
- Parsons student linear zoetrope videos
- Parsons Students Linear Zoetrope Photos
- Observations on Flow, part II: two improvements
- Observations on Flow, part I
- Silly joke
- Another friend wins writing award
- A beautiful spring day in my neighborhood
- More thoughts on “Where you get energy”
- If you love it, do it even if you aren’t good at it
- Where you get energy
- Sometimes working harder is easier
- Vipassana Meditation
- A vegetarian entrepreneur’s take on test tube meat
- Venture Capital myths
- Don’t be like a cheetah running into a wall
- What’s wrong with “making the world a better place”?
- Are you being judgmental without realizing?, part IV
- Your life is no more complicated than anyone else’s
- Thinking about business school?
- Updated art resume and post from Leaders in Software and Art talk
- My next leadership seminar: June 4 and 5 at the New School (jointly with Columbia Business School)
- Alternatives to counterproductive emotions and behavior
- Goodbye guilt and blame, VII
- Goodbye guilt and blame, VI
- Are you being judgmental without realizing?, part III
- New images and videos of the Parsons Displays
- Are you being judgmental without realizing?, part II
- Are you being judgmental without realizing?, part I
- What do I do?
- On vengeance
- Successful, field-tested mental models likely to improve your life
- Update #3 on the Union Square display
April 2011
- Goodbye guilt and blame, V
- Update #2 on the Parsons Union Square display
- Goodbye guilt and blame, IV
- Update #1 on the Union Square display
- Goodbye guilt and blame, III
- Goodbye guilt and blame, II
- Goodbye guilt and blame, I
- Tonight’s talk’s map
- Working on art
- Added press page
- How to succeed in difficult situations
- See me speak on creativity!
- Another reason to avoid proprietary software
- Values and diversity in higher education
- The root of happiness
- Grete Waitz: superhero
- My teammate won a Pulitzer!
- When you want to feel fake
- How to find strengths in your weaknesses
- Freedombox logo ideas
- Perfection in leadership and how to improve
- More Where to Find More
- Why learn leadership (even if you don’t want to be a leader)
- Great opening lines to books
- Challenges of feedback and how to use it
- More rapid life-level changes and an origin of this blog
- The value of looking for solutions over looking for problems
- Hudson River swimming
- When polarizing helps
- Awesome Union Square Parsons art project gaining support!
- Personal development doesn’t have to take years
- Suggesting to calm down or take it easy is usually a jerk move by an annoying person
- Fine tuning and preparing
- About Joshua Spodek: Where to find more
- About Joshua Spodek: Topics this blog covers
- About Joshua Spodek: Whom this blog is for
- About Joshua Spodek: My background
- Another donation — over 5% there!
- Simplifying the About page
- Donations begun. You can be next!
- My next big beautiful public art piece! (please contribute!)
- The fun side of raw food
- How insults can be calming, liberating, and informative
- A master speaks on creative expression
March 2011
- Creativity talk mindmap
- Who am I and what am I doing here, part II?
- Another way to decrease stress, part II
- My April creativity talk at Fred in Brooklyn
- Awesome software to help you think
- Who am I and what am I doing here?
- Special seats available for NYAS seminar
- More pictures
- Exclusive pictures of life and death adventure!
- One way not to be manipulated
- Questions and answers about seminar
- Seminar seats limited
- My New York Academy of Sciences Seminar
- Systematic creativity resources
- Innovative technique
- More history of innovative technique
- Initial creativity research II
- Initial creativity research I
- More awesome friends
- Aspiring authors: get to know me!
- How much can you take responsibility for someone else’s emotions?
- When values collide I
- Teaching is awesome and inspiring
- How to get called a creative genius: when function follows form
- Productive alternatives to the genius myth
- How the genius myth is counterproductive
- How to be more creative
- What makes people see something as creative
- Why suggesting to think outside the box hurts you
- Creativity
February 2011
- Summary of counterproductive entrepreneurship myths and productive beliefs
- Four productive beliefs about entrepreneurship, part IV
- Four productive beliefs about entrepreneurship, part III
- Four productive beliefs about entrepreneurship, part II
- Four productive beliefs about entrepreneurship, part I
- Four counterproductive myths about entrepreneurship, part IV
- Four counterproductive myths about entrepreneurship, part III
- Four counterproductive myths about entrepreneurship, part II
- Four counterproductive myths about entrepreneurship, part Ia
- Four counterproductive myths about entrepreneurship, part I
- Switching domain name and software
- Your understanding of creativity holds you back from creating
- The Worst Problem In The World
- How much can you change your taste?
- Improving on focusing on what rewards you
- Choosing what you like is not denying what you don’t
- Creating more freedom
- How do you keep going in the face of adversity?
- On reading the 2010 New York City Marathon results
- E-book overload
- Predictably Irrational
- Another way to reduce stress more
- One way to decrease stress
- What is a belief worth?
- What do you never regret?
- Parsons Class
- Freedom today
- Responsibility versus blame
- Fracking — unhealthy for people who drink water or breathe air
- How much do you understand?
- Rowing machine!
- Why are decisions hard?
- Do you want to win debates or enjoy life?
January 2011
- Less lingo please. More plain talk.
- The best book on the environment, economy, and ecology
- An alternative to truth and lies
- Why do movies still have closing credits?
- The empowering relationship between time and priorities
- Is Urban Dictionary this awesome for everyone?
- Twenty years of gospel church
- Crowding out beats letting go
- Why I avoid proprietary software
- Where does value come from?
- How willing are you not to judge?
- Unsolicited advice annoys people: how to avoid giving it.
- Awareness
- Demotivating acceptances
- Motivating rejections IV
- Motivating rejections III
- Motivating rejections II
- Motivating rejections
- Joshua Spodek’s Art Resume